Life is full of experiences ,good or bad, sweet or bitter , experiences that put us to the next level of life, to a whole new world.
Sometimes life treat us like a “Kohlu ka bail “means an ox that drives an oil press round and round with its eyes covered, and that ox blindly moves around the oil press for years and years with a hope that he will have a nice bunch of grass and a bucket of water and some rest in night.
Yes! Some of us are exactly like this OX, we do not bother anything that come across, someone dies or someone born, it is just like a news for us. Even if we are ill or tired, we still can’t give up our daily routine because deep in our mind we have this fear that change or risk may lead us to troubled road, the only motto for such people is to living with less trouble is better than facing a new trouble, they only need to live, whatever life brings, they just take it without a feel.
They grew up, educated, get married, raise children but somehow fail to create a memorable life. They just left each relation undone, the erg for getting money for their loved ones un intentionally distant them very gradually. And in the end they realized, what do I have in my hands?? They just fail to memories their children giggle, naughtiness, they can’t even feel what it like is to play with them.
Thanks Allah that I am not among such people I consider myself in another category. There are people who feel happiness, pain, excitement and even their fears. They like to respond to each emotion and each phase of life, they also fight for their right and they try to change their life into a favorable condition. They keep their work and family in a right place, a perfect or near to perfect balance in all phases of life. They act like a child with their children; they turned into old person when talking to an elderly one. They can dance or even listen to a serious poetry; they just somehow fit themselves into everything.
Now the question is what is this force or factor or a reason that creates these different people? Why some of us just live and die and why some people change their fate? Is this Passion or a Dare to take risks? Is it due to natural bravery or self confidence? What?
I don’t know about anyone else but the force behind me is only… LOVE!
Love in all relations, love in me, love in my soul, love for every single soul in front of me. This is the only reason that gives me strength to live life at its most beautiful level. The level which Allah want for us, which we really want to go for but our wrong decisions or wrong way of treating relations and certain matters act like a barrier between that beauty of life and us.
Today when I read about this daily prompt, i felt only love and good memories to discuss and think of. It is not that I didn’t experience bad and worst experiences. No I have many many bitter experiences but luckily and I’m fortunate that due to love of my life, due to love in me those all bad experiences and bump roads of life could not store into my memories.
I am lucky enough that I could not feel the pain of such bad times , when I sit alone and my mind takes me back in old times I just smile, and the power of my love stops the darkness outside of my heart and mind.
It is only love that vanish my pain.
It is only love that taught me how to live and treat myself and others.
It is only love that just brain washed me for every single lie, betray, sorrow, failure which I faced ever.
And it is only love that gives me strength to live life at its fullest joy.
I AM THANKFUL TO ALLAH FOR BLESSING ME WITH SO MUCH LOVE AND PEACE.
AND I AM THANKFUL TO MY HUSBAND FOR MAKING ME FEEL AND WRITE THIS.YOU ARE MY MAGIC, MY STRENGTH.
MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU AND ALL OF MY LOVED ONES. AMEEN