I am still 16 – OKAY 85%


“Keep a diary, and someday it’ll keep you.”

- Mae West

What a saying, Today daily prompts, forced me to open my diary when I was 16. I bring it out and start reading. I read it for about 1 hour and just forget why I brought it out from my old bag.

My diary, kept me, preserved me in my sixteen very well. I smiled and get sad also while reading the random pages. Okay let’s say I am 85% still like 16 years old Afsheen, Surprisingly though! And I am glad that the lost 15% was not worth enough to keep at all.

I had taken some clicks from my diary, I want you all to meet the 16 years old Afsheen by yourself!



Allah is always with me, I write notes like these often.




 I love Pakistan

I can’t see anything losing by Pakistan, whether it is in any sport, politics, or the people of Pakistan. I want to see my country with great power of Unity, Faith, Discipline and Love. I can just honestly do what is in my share and only PRAY FROM ALLAH.



Wagee ( Wajeeh my nephew son) , Family and Friend(s)



I want to visit , It has a huge list including Malaysia, Maldives, Mexico, Nepal, Philippines, Singapore, Spain , Srilanka, Switzerland, Thailand, Turkey, UK, USA, Vietnam ( On this page, I have left the first page because it will be much lengthier then ) and second thing it says is, I want to live in PAKISTAN only :) that is what written.

*Sorry for bad blur photo.



May Allah bless all of us :) ameen



Okay :) Cartoons , I use to watch Thunder cats, Camp candy , Smurfs , Tom and Jerry ( which i still love)

It also says, Abu( Father) cooked chicken which tastes good but looks bad :) and i added in URDU for this

“See the beauty of soul not the looks.”




Achieve your dreams, A successful life is a real life , I don’t need artificial life.




I draw this for my Brother and Mother, Their hobbies with their zodiac signs.




This was me , and This is me !

May Allah bless us All, Ameen

This post is written in response to daily prompt. http://dailypost.wordpress.com/dp_prompt/only-sixteen/


The Best Garment


This post is written in response to http://dailypost.wordpress.com/dp_prompt/you-sexy-thing/



O children of Adam, we have provided you with garments to cover your bodies, as well as for luxury. But the best garment is the garment of righteousness. These are some of God’s signs, that they may take heed. (7:26)




Fly with Blu – RIO 2


-         Are we really going to watch RIO 2 3D Movie:-o

~ Yes, we are at 6:00 P.M

-         Man, I’m really excited to watch 3D movie for the very first time: D…


Yes, I experienced 3D movie first time and the cinema 2nd time: P, I have never been to cinema before getting married. (And now I ask myself why ..? huh)

Okay coming back to RIO 2, Blu with his all technology and city life: D.


Along with his beautiful family , Jewel and kids.

Amazon king PAPA, SIR.


Wow… what a wonderful treat for my eyes and mind. Experiencing this movie in 3D is much more fun.

I love the poisonous lovely pink frog Gabi, and her love with Nigel, how passionate and desperate.


The Character of Gabi’s look so beautiful and unique in terms of her colors.


The most fun parts were, Auditions in Amazon jungle, performance of Turtles, Koala bear, Mosquito’s every single bit was superb fun.

I also loved the part where Blue parrots celebrate the family union in amazon jungle; it was impressive and delightful to watch.

 And the most logical and wise saying in movie was:

Happy Wife, Happy Life


The house (probably ladies only) laughs on this dialogue every time Blu said it, and Me, Yes I looked at my husband and repeat the dialogue: P with a smile on my face. Hehehe

What a wise saying  —- Happy Wife, Happy Life!

A wonderful Movie to watch, worth enough to go cinema :P


I was Nuts



My Third Rate Romance was kind of strange addiction which I get when I was a teenager.

I don’t remember exactly how it started but it goes on and on and it becomes a part of my life.

An addiction !

Living without it , was a total black out for me.

I know they (parents) warned me right,

I know it was not good for me, not fit for me at all

But…i couldn’t stopped.

And it started to show what It got finally

Pain, wounds, marks

I was fool to  think I am the one who was cutting it into pieces,

but that was the one who was sucking my blood and drying me out

giving me stains and marks so dark…but i couldn’t stopped.

until the day comes,

when It ate me all,

Dried my body and bring me down

gave me sick bed and showed what it really was.



I got jaundice due to this habit of eating Betel nut all the day, it really dried me out.

My father then showed me how this Betel nut sucks the liquid so quickly by placing it into a cup of water.

Next day I saw, the Betel nut absorbed the water and swell.

My father said: That’s how it takes your blood also.” ( It was horrifying for me)

That was the day, I left eating this nut and throw away this cutter also.







I want to Flow like a River




Forget all the rules

Forget about being published .

Write for yourself and celebrate writing.

~ Melinda Haynes ~


If my doctor told me I only had six minutes to live, I wouldn’t brood.

I did type a little faster.  ~ Isaac Asimov~




A Smile !


Have You Never Been Mellow?

After a long day at work or school, what are your favorite ways to wind down and decompress?


When i was bachelor and living with my parents, the only thing which calms me was my parents smile. I spend hours with them even after a long hectic working day.


My father use to pick me from factory (Pharmaceutical) where i worked as a quality control manager and i sit with him in his car like a small child who doesn’t know anything in the world, who just see world  through the window and smile. I don’t know how my personality switched instantly from a responsible professional  to a little child when i was with him. ( Still , it happens ).  On the way back  to home we remained quite mostly , but the silence is peaceful and filled with sense of security.

When we reached home, the first thing I used to do was, looking for my mother, and if i cant see her immediately i asked my sisters where is amme ( mother) ?  When i see her i say Aslamoalikum (blessing of Allah on you) first and then used to ask, “What’s in dinner” ? , it continues with having dinner with my Mother hands. (Still when i go to my mother place , i eat by her hands. It is just like a heaven on earth. Sitting near her feet and eating by her hands).

I use to tell all day activities to my parents. From A to Z. (Which my parents miss so much and my in law parents get addicted to this now- i am a story teller :P )

…. NOW , i am married and after a long hectic day the only thing which calms me is My husband smile



It is like a magic and this magic is getting more tricky day after day. :) I am unable to solve the mystery of this smile, but this smile is my peace and strength.

I am proud of my parents and my husband.





Backpack for Life


Do you find it easy to make new friends? Tell us how you’ve mastered the art of befriending a new person.



These days i am reading a book ” Backpack for Life- an interpretation of Eighty Prophetic Traditions” by Qanbar Ali Taymuri, Translated by Vahida Shekofti and Mubina Vizjee published and printed by Islamic Research Foundation, Astan Quds Razavi , Mashhad- Iran.

This book as subtitle indicates is about Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W.W) sayings about dealing life in a very simple but wise way.

When I see today’s daily prompt , some of the Prophet saying’s strikes in my mind which I read earlier.  These following saying are perfect rules which can make us master in the art of befriending a new person. I believe in them and i try my best to follow these basic  human practices so that i could be in a list of those rich people who have wealth of sincere friends and who can be a trustworthy for others.

Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.w) says:


You do not have that much wealth to please everyone, so try to please people by your cheerfulness. ( Wasa’il as Shia Vol 2, P.222.)


I swear to God that my life is in His Hands, people can not give any better chairty, more lovable than saying good words.” (Mizan al Hikma Vol, 7. P.3044, T.10401.)


Some peoples’ friendship is only for carnal desires.

A few other peoples’ friendship is for gaining profit,

Some other peoples’ friendship is nothing but a cold greeting.

However, a believer’s friendship is that’ to look at him with respect, to love him, to benefit him from one’s wealth, not to backbite, visit him  when he is sick and when he dies, to attend his funeral procession and after his death not to say anything bad about him.( Man La Yahdaru al Faqih, Vol. 4 P.398)


When anyone of you likes your friend, express your feelings. (Mizan al-Hikma Vol 1, P.72, T, 201)


The person who does not accept people apologies either acceptable or unacceptable will not be with us by the foundation of Kausar. (Mizan al-Hikma , Vol 1, P.3534, T.12117)


Give gifts to each other to strengthen y our bond of love. Since gifts increase love and remove displeasure.( Nahj-ul-Fasaha, P.238, T.1189)


Whoever does something good to you and is kind to you , give him something in return and if you cannot , then pray for him” ( Nahj-ul-Fasaha, P.611, T.2992)


The best believer is the one whom people get friendly with. However, the person whom people can not get friendly with and he himself does not try to get friendly with people, there is no blessing in him.” ( Mizan al Hikma, Vol 1, P. 170, T, 655)


When you find the three characteristic of prudence, trusteeship and honesty in your friend, have hope in him , otherwise don’t have hope in him. (Nahj-al-Fasaha, P.39, T, 205)

These are the perfect rules to be a good friend for people and to make people your very good friend.

May Allah help us all to be a good person and to spread love and peace all around us. ameen.



The Cracking Chrispmouse Bloggywog Award


My Dear Friend Petrel @ http://dearkitty1.wordpress.com honored me with this award “Cracking Chrispmouse Bloggywod Award”.I am glad that she always appreciated me. Thank you so much my friend.


“The Cracking Chrispmouse Bloggywog Award” is given to someone who “spreads one or more of joy, peace, hope and love” with their blog! The receiver of this award can pass it on if you wish to ANYONE who satisfies the above rule of spreading one or more of those lovely things. There’s no minimum or maximum number of blogs you can pass it on.”

rules of the award are:

1. Display the award logo on your blog.

2. Link back to the person who nominated you.

3. State 7 things about yourself

4. Nominate other bloggers for this award and link to them.

5. Notify those bloggers of the nomination and the award requirements.

Seven Things about me :

1. I am a very straight forward person.

2. I respect everyone but the one who lie and cheat.

3. For me Humanity is everything.

and now about my Blog Stats…










Okay , now i have to Nominate the other bloggers who i feel spreading joy, love and peace.



I wish both of the nominees , All the best

May Allah bless us all , ameen


Vege house.


“Imagination is the golden-eyed monster that never sleeps. It must be fed; it cannot be ignored.” ― Patricia A Killip

Yes i discover Mr.Fit while cutting the vegetables today .


Mr.Fat, who thinks he is more stronger than Mr.Fit



How can i forget Mr.Potato Bear, who i met few days back on my trip to Village :P



Mr. Onion Panda :P



and Mr. Slim with all his slimness :P ….